From navigating my 30s, to being a mama, or to just trying to survive

While starting this journey trying to make money by just being myself,I got to thinking. Why as a society do we judge everything someone posts? I know mainly

because, well, its out there for people to judge right? why are new content creators afraid to post? for me, it was the fact that people I know in real life would see it obviously.

would I be afraid if they came into my place of work? no. so why is this any different? the internet is now my place of work.

ive been saying in my mind now for the past month ” those who mind don’t matter, and those who matter don’t mind.”

so if you’ve been inspired in some way or another to start this biz JUST POST IT!

I made the best raisin bread today probably one of my best loafs yet! I think Memphis single handly ate half the loaf!

The people who support me the most

It all started with a game of pool in a little dive bar that no longer exists. Ray, this story is for another day but long story short we met one night and was inseparable ever since. He is by far my biggest supporter in all of this social media and digital life.



Next up, we have Gunner he is my bonus kiddo. Just because I didn’t birth him doesn’t mean he didn’t teach me how to be a mom, he definitely taught me in ways he will never know until one day he becomes a father. you can usually find us lightly roasting each other when were not playing fortnite together.

Last but for sure not least the one who made me a mama, we have Memphis. He is by far the most wild hot headed 5 year old I’ve ever met, that makes sense considering who his mother is. seriously he is me without the filter and that is a scary thought lol!

I don’t want the kids to be the face of my website having them on the internet is not my cup of tea but I will from time to time share them just probably not their faces.

“Motherhood is a wild ride of emotions: from the heart melting moments that make you feel like a superhero to the chaotic moments that make you wonder if you’ve lost your mind. and yet, in the midst of it all, there’s a love that never wavers.”